Speed dating experience blog
When I tell her about the “I love to eat” debacle, she can’t stop laughing.
What Dates One through Seven didn’t know about me — what I never bothered to tell them — is that I have a veritable army of food allergies, meaning I don’t exactly qualify as a typical foodie.
“The quality of relationship-defining memories predicts relationship satisfaction, so really good, emotionally intense and meaningful early memories can fuel a lifetime of love,” Mc Sweeney says.
“So if you do go speed dating, make sure it's memorable! I find NY Minute Dating online and sign up for an event called “Single Professionals, 20s and 30s,” which sounds more promising than others on the list like “Halloween Singles Party” or “Cougars and Cubs.” It’s per event, which feels steep, but I take the plunge.
wouldn’t even date me, I had nothing interesting to say! “So what you really learned is that you’re boring as hell,” Hannah responds. Selling yourself as a potential partner is a lot different than selling yourself as an employee, and I’ve approached my dating life like a job interview when it has to be a lot more organic than that.
I tell him I’m still new here, I’m from the South, I’m a writer, everything I can think of that would make me seem Interesting and Witty. The music is only getting louder, so I’m leaning in until I’m about two inches from his ear and screaming about how much I love to write and can he tell I’m from the South because usually people can’t detect my accent.
I think he tells me what he does for a living, but I can’t quite make it out, and the one piece of information I manage to gather is that he goes to a lot of concerts and is losing hearing in his left ear as a result. To my immense relief, Date Four wants to talk at me while I listen intently.
It’s the same thing I wore to work, which feels very Single Professional and therefore makes me proud.
The Girl in Charge greets me with a name tag and a slip of paper to write down everyone’s names.