Is your ideal guy short, of average build with a love for theatre or is he a nature buff of medium height and slim frame?
Even if you can visualize your ideal mate in your head, it's a good idea to draw him on paper.
The members in these online dating communities may come from different gay scenes but they all have one thing in common.
Whether it's Grindr or OKCupid, each guy is asked to market themselves with an online profile.
If you've ever been on a gay online dating site, you know that there are hundreds, if not thousands, of guys all looking to connect. And the most successful guys are those that know their market and the product they're presenting—themselves.
Imagine if your favorite cereal came in a white box with no graphics or explanation of what was inside.
You can be very specific ("My guy is 28 years old") or you can use ranges ("My guy is between 28 and 34 years old").
Online, I've found that the more abstract the screen name, the more guys will message me and ask questions, which ultimately leads to a conversation- the best way to assess a match.
Keep in mind, screen names can also be a deterrent. A name like "lookn4luv" is more likely to attract the romantic types than "easystevie".
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