Dating age rule math
“I had surpassed him in some areas — I had been in the workforce for 12 years when we met and held leadership positions in church.” I had similar concerns when I met Kevin.
From our first conversation, I could tell he was very mature for his age. Once I learned his actual age, I was concerned that he might not be ready to settle down and have a family, when I definitely was.
One family in Georgia experienced the importance of being careful of the law.
Genarlow Wilson, 17, engaged in oral sex with a consenting 15-year-old girl and was convicted of aggravated child molestation.
Beginning to date can be very challenging to tackle, not just for teenagers, but also for their parents.
As frightening as this time may be, it could also be a time of training and helping minors form healthy relationships.
It is the job of parents in this endeavor to be informed about laws that could affect the choices that they help their young people make to ensure that their first experiences with dating are positive and safe.
Set rules so teenagers know the boundaries of acceptable behavior.
Before his lawyers were finally able to get the Georgia Supreme Court to hear his case and rule that his 10-year sentence was cruel and unusual, this former scholarship student had spent two years in prison.
(At the time, the Georgia law allowing similarity of age to be taken into account applied only to vaginal sex, not oral sex.) Both sets of parents could have helped to avoid this horrendous incident by training and teaching their teens about the law, but more importantly about boundaries, and about building healthy relationships through respect for themselves and respect for others.
Following these guidelines and understanding the law will help minors learn to date safely.
Yvonne Johnson is a graduate of Georgia College & State University.