Dating a shy guy
There are men out there who don't have a negative image of themselves or their bodies or their careers, but simply prefer choosing their words wisely. On the flip side, just because you are outgoing, talkative, and friendly, does not automatically correlate to you being confident.I have met many men and women who have no problem talking and connecting with other people, but their feeling of self-worth is derived from the opinions or acceptance of others.
As a shy male, you probably have a little voice inside you telling you you’re not good enough. “Set it up as a daily reminder on your phone; choose an image that represents the uplifting phrase and make it your laptop wallpaper; or write it on a Post-it note and stick it somewhere you’ll see it every day.
When you do connect with someone, you can think up some charming, clever banter without being put on the spot.
You can cultivate a rapport before she’s even heard your voice.
I guess he just feels more comfortable communicating with me than he does with most people. I thought something was wrong and his parents thought I was nuts for thinking it!
Anyway, I treasure his introversion - it balances with my extroversion quite well. Dad calls mom a week later and she didn't remember who he was. He's that guy that sits there quietly at the party, but when the opportunity arises, his quips are absolutely pant-pissing hilarious.